20/11/2010....ari ape tu,istemewa ker....=)

wakilkan wali kpd imam

20 hb November 2010
tarikh yang selama ini dinantikan dengan penuh debar kini menjelma jua.. hari ini akan diijab kabulkan dengan jejaka pilihan ku sendiri.. hari ini akan bermulalah langkah baru dalam hidup ku sebagai seorang yang bergelar isteri.. Majlis akad nikah aku telah diadakan di masjid kampungku yg hanya bpe meter dri rumah,hehehe… (Masjid Kampung Batu Hampar) Pendang, Kedah.. upacara akad nikah ini bermula pada pukul 11.00pg..hatiku bertiup kencang berdebar gila waktu tu.. mana taknya.. tak tahu apa yang akan jadi....

Tika itu,hadirin khusyuk mendengar lafaz suamiku....

Alhamdulillah tepat jam 11.25pg aku telah pun sah menjadi isteri kepada suami tercinta Mohd Asrul bin Mohd Safie dengan hanya sekali lafaz sahaja.. syukur kehadrat Ilahi kerana telah satukan kami dalam keadaan yang bagi ku sempurna..

aq harap kami dapat mengharungi cabaran sebagai suami isteri dan bahagia dunia dan akhirat..tak sangka ramai yang datang..time kasih kepada para tetamu..dan teristimewa kepada mama dan abahku yang bertungkus lumus dalam majlis ini..tanpa kalian berdua mungkin majlis ini tidak akan sempurna..kepada sume mak sedara dan kazen2ku timekasih diucapkan kerana datang menolong dihari bahagiaku.. kini aku amat bahagia dan gembira dengan suami tercinta..tapi semalam jea aq sempat bermanje ngn suami,sbb isnin suamiku harus melaksanakan tugasnya kembali,maklum la bru keje kne bg komitmen tinggi sket…. tinggalla aq di Kedah..nk tggu mggu dpn bagai 1000 taun,tuhan jer yg tau time tu……waduh sebaknyerrr….=)

selesai.......

Alhamdulillah.......

sain akuan perkahwinan

bnyk gak nk kne sain time 2....

pengapit setia sedang berposing sakan....=)

cincin pemberian tanda ikatan terjalin

berdebar rasanya......=)

Thanks syg....

membe2 yg setia dicc time aq diijab kabulkan,thanks sumer...

time ni la yg paling aq nerves skali,heheheheeee...

polo club.....=)

okek,nk tgk majlis resepsi plak,tggu nnt aq upload okeh...=)

hari yg penuh makna........

Hi semua....hari ni baru ada mood plus skrg hidup sye dah kembali normal.....hehe.....lbey kurg 8 buln aq mendirikan umah tgge.....wahhh cepat btul masa b'lalu.....x terasa pon....tau2 lg dah 7bln aq preggy.....then bulan 9....xsabar rasenyer.....

Meh aq citer perjalann kawen ku….Actually preparation aq dah start dr bulan 5 lg....time tu dah start beli brg2 hantaran sikit2.....yela,xnk nnt stress maklum la pas final exam jer trus aq nikah,nnt takot stress plak...

Bulan 3 aq dah pilih butik mana utk pakej kawen....actually x byk sgt yg aq survey coz semakin aq survey semakin pening kepala.... pastu ada gak tgk2 kat pameran pengantin......tp time pameran mmg sgt susah nak wat pilihan coz diorg x tunjuk full collection baju diorg, & pakej pon kebanyakkan nyer x sesuai ngan apa yg aq nak.....pastu aq terpk why not p butik busana murni dkt ngn umah aq tu,cantik2 gak ......aq pon gi la survey.....service pon ok....diorg layan jerk semua yg aq tanyer so kat situ aq dah puas ati....tp x wat decision lg coz kena dpt approval dr Encik suami dulu.....coz x nak la klo aq suka, nnti dier x suka plak kan....pemilihan ini dibuat adalah kerana:

1) Butik ni sgt dekat ngan rumah aq so aq x pyh susah2 nak drive kehujung dunia & if anything senang nak gi situ

2) Sye dah bekenan ngan baju kat situ

3) Of course service yg baik

4) Owner dia sgt pandai memberi idea & aq ske ngan idea dia

5) Pakej dia sgt sesuai ngan apa yg aq nak

6) aq mmg dah malas nak b'fikir...bukan senang yer nak buat pilihan kena pikir 70juta kali.

Cameraman pon dah confirm, aq cri lam tenet…service dier pon okek….mesra jer….

Perkara paling penting skali adalah daftar kawen....tu kitorg awal2 lg dah wat....oleh kerana kebenaran berkahwin tu valid 3 bulan….ok kat sini aq nak share skit procedure daftar kahwin tu since time sye daftar aritu sgt la kelam kabut & kitorg mcm x tau apa2.....lelaki mesti m'dpt surat kebenaran berkahwin dulu baru la perempuan boleh m'daftar kahwin...so,aq knela tggu surat 2 dri En. Suami…opss sblm tu, pasti kan borang lengkap & disertakan ngan surat akuan bujang dr majikan(sesape yg keje), HIV test & sijil kahwin ori & fotostat....then dengan surat kebenaran berkahwin En. Suami tu aq sertakan dlm borang permohonan kawin aq……Alhamdulillah setel……..Akhirnya aq selamat dinikah kan bernikah di Masjid Batu Hampar pada 20 hb 11 2010 pukul 11 pagi.....

Pengapit aq diimport dri Pahang,namanya Irma….kck jer orgnyer,lbey kurg aq la….aq memg suke sgt,sejak kami masuk uia ni kmi mula rapat nk plak dier 1 kolej ngn aq,pe lg rancak la bebual if ktrg bertemu….thanks Irma coz dri jauh dtg.

Ok.....Tu jer la cerita aq.....alhamdulillah,berkat doa sume, majlis berjalan lancer.....ni 1st majlis kahwin dlm family aq.....so mmg xder experience lgsung & mama aq sgt la risau smpai dia ckp sejak aq nak kahwin ni dia mmg x leh tdo lena....(xsabar nk sambut menntu) hehe

Nnt aq upload segala pic pd entry seterusnya…

daaaaa.........

lama xbersua....

Ya Allah....

dah dkt setaun aq xmengemas ni....
dah bnyk sawang ni....

yela,pas bergelar istri ni sibuk manjang mane xnyer nk jge diri kte lg,suami lg kan.....
kejap mintak masak asam pedas la,kari ayam la...
pastu nk minum milo la,tup2x dah mlm upenyer.....
tiap2 pg siap2 g klas,itula kehidupan aq sejak bergelar istri ni.......
sbb tu, manela sempat nk manjakan diri ngn blog aq ni...=)
xpe,skang aq dah free,leh mengarang2 yela dah xwatpe dah aq dah leh rehat sementara menunggu mujahid kecil ni(ngah kicking3) ...

xtually de bnyk cite yg aq nk citer,tp xpe nnt aq pelan2 cite ape yg dah berlaku sepanjang aq xnulis2 blog ni....
stakat ni dlu tok arini,bby pon dah tendang2 mintak makanan,kalo lmbt sket meragam la dier...=)

A moMent of Reflection

I just realized something about me recently..

I realize I’ve been so caught up in my everyday problems that I simply forget to stop and take a good look at my life right now. I mean..

Hey.. Life is good, actually...

I’m healthy, I have a roof over my head, A loving family, a beautiful city with clean air that I get to live in, ABG who is supportive, though sometimes gave me headaches..

In fact this evening, I get to see a beautiful environment that i ignored before,MasyaAllah ..just outside my room. How about that! I even took a picture of it.. I looked at it and just wowed. Here..I’ll show you.

Great isn’t it? It looks better in reality, mind my poor photo-taking technique.

Anyway.. I realized, that this last few months, I’ve been such a complainer.. an egotistic one! I didn’t even realize I have that big of an ego. My ego it seems are SO BIG that I sweat and complaints on all the little stuff.. Giving tantrum to all the people around me.. The people I love got the most because they are around me most of the time.. I even made ABG cry. I was such an idiot.

And for what? If I stop and stare at my life in this instance. Masya Allah.. God has given me so much.. And I always wants more.. more respect, more service, more politeness, more support, more love, more sensitivity, more..more..more for my Ego. Hell, I want to live in my dream world where everything is PERFECT the way I want them to be. There’s no way that will happen.

I forgot to just Be Grateful..

If I didn’t stop to take a look outside of my room window this afternoon, I wouldn’t have notice the rainbow soar beautifully to the blue sky. I wouldn’t have notice the gorgeous silhouette of mountains behind the sprawl of UIA building. I forgot how beautiful the scenery from my room here in UIA. I forgot..

I forgot about all the little things that are beautiful, fulfilling, inspiring, enlightening that surrounded me. If only I focus my energy on those good stuffs instead of the bad, my life would’ve gotten even better.

You know.. Life is Perfect just the way it is..

Because Allah is Perfect with His plans..

My prayer to GOD before I go to sleep tonight is for forgiveness. Forgiveness for me and for everyone I cared about and let down.. And may God open their hearts to also forgive me for my mistakes.. I pray to Him, let me be a person who never let the gleam and troubles of the world blind her from the blessings she received.. to always be grateful for all the good and the bad. To always be in His light and His Mercy.. Aminnn..